Hi ,
Jan was 67, wanting to get married again, to a lovely man....
We were on coaching session number 4 together...
And she read to me "her script".
It was a
lovely story, about her and her fella.
Just lovely.
But it was a script, that's it.
And it read, like a script.
And it felt - scripted.
(Now it's time for THE MOMENT OF MAGIC.)
So I asked her, a very simple question.
One that changed her entire
life - in an instant.
"What's it feel like - when he looks into your eyes....."
Her breath shifted.
She was speechless.
She was blown away.
It took a full 30 seconds for her to speak again...
Then we explored...
POWER POINT: She EXPERIENCED something REAL.
Something REAL that she was seeking, inside her script.
Something she couldn't find, her way.
She experienced THE MOMENT OF MAGIC.
We never did her last
coaching session she paid for, she asked me to give it to someone else.
She was that happy.
So I did.
Jan is married now, to a lovely fella.
Happy as a clam.
There are a few goodie lessons here in this one.
First, you don't script it all out.
Because scripts feel - scripted.
You don't want a script. You need a shift.
With The Moment of Magic - Jan shifted.
And after a little play - we found her Moment of Magic - here...
"What
does it feel like, when he looks into your eyes...."
That's all she needed, I knew "it was done".
She knew, "it was done".
In the story / script, there was heaps of detail,
about the room about his outfit, about the music playing about the.... but SHE wasn't there......
Data was getting in the way - of The Moment of Magic.
So there was, no moment - no magic - in her imaginings....
"What do you feel, when he looks into your eyes....."
Maybe you need a bit more than that, maybe you don't.
But I can tell you, The Moment of Magic is REAL!